It's easy to slip into sweatpants and binge on Ben & Jerry's after a divorce, but that only slows down the healing process. Rather than wallowing, Kayrene W. suggests a bit of pampering. "Do something just for you, every single day," she says. "That may sound selfish at first blush, but if you are taking care of yourself then you are a much better mommy for your kids." Whether it's going to the gym or polishing your nails at night, make sure to treat yourself every day. After the drama you've dealt with, you more than deserve it.