11 Ways to Show Some Spousal Appreciation
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We often get so caught up in our roles as parents that we tend to forget about the person who helped make our families possible — our partner. It's understandable. Lord knows it's easier to shout at someone for doing something wrong than it is to thank them for doing something right. But a little appreciation can be the difference between death do you part and divorce proceedings. So whether you need to show a little more thanks or think you're worthy of some extra praise, we suggest incorporating a few of these tips into your life.
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Take Them on a Date
We're not talking about a night of Netflix and takeout. Hire a sitter and treat your spouse to a fun, romantic evening.
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Start a "Thank You" Board
Don't forget to thank them for the little things. Keep a board nearby so you can jot down appreciative notes whenever they pop into your head.
Lighten the Load
Picking up after yourself will make it easier for your partner to complete their chores. Or better yet, take some of the tasks off their to-do list and tackle them yourself.
Bake Some "Just Because" Sweets
If your spouse prefers something savory, whip up their favorite dinner or snack.
Give Them a "Yes" Day
Your partner does a lot for you, so it's time to return the favor. Pick a day and agree to anything they ask or suggest — within reason, of course!
Let Them Sleep
Allow your spouse to lie in bed while you take on the kids, even if you have to sacrifice a few hours of sweet dreaming to do it.
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Brag to Your Friends
Next time you go out with the gals, leave the negative talk at home. Instead, try sharing a positive story about your partner.
Give Them a Hug, Kiss, or Something More
We're not saying sex is a substitute for a simple "thank you," but giving your spouse some physical attention can help lift their mood.
Leave Little Notes
Surprise sentiments remind your spouse just how much you love and appreciate them.
Encourage Them to Take "Me Time"
Whether you tell them to spend the day at a spa or read something that isn't Dr. Seuss, giving your partner time to rest, relax, and rejuvenate will mean the world to them.
Just Say It
It takes very little effort to say "thank you," and hearing it means a whole lot.