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They Got Rejected From Their Dream School — Now What?

Jan 14 2014 - 7:53am

They took the SATs, visited campuses [1], sent their applications, and now teens across the country are anxiously awaiting their college letters. Unfortunately, not all envelopes will be filled with congratulatory messages. Acceptance rates dropped to less than six percent [2] in 2013, making it more difficult for high school seniors to get into their first-choice — and even second-choice — schools. Because of this, it's important to not only prepare your child for potential rejection, but to help them recover from it. Here, tips to help your child bounce back from a rejection letter.

Take a Second Shot

Students rejected from their first choices shouldn't give up their dreams just yet. Those who applied early decision can resubmit their application for early action or regular admittance. If, however, they are rejected from regular admittance, then they can reapply during their freshman year at another school. Be aware, though, that acceptance rates are actually lower for transfer students than first-time applicants.

Meet With an Expert

Before your child sends out a second round of apps, set up a meeting with an admissions counselor at a local university. They can tell your more about the admissions process and may be able to share a few tips to better your teen's chances.

Give Their List Another Look

If your teen's received multiple rejections letters, compare the school's admissions stats. Do they require similar SAT scores and GPAs? Do they only take a certain amount of out-of-state students? If there are similar requirements, encourage your child to apply to some schools with different requirements.

Stay Focused on School

Don't let your child suffer from senioritis. Universities are able to request updated transcripts, and those second semester grades [3] could sway their decision. This is especially important for teens who have been wait-listed or are trying to reapply to their dream schools.

Ask For Reconsideration

In rare cases, students can change a school's mind through an appeal letter. This, however, should only be used in extreme circumstances, such as improving one's GPA, receiving a special award, or an error in the original application.

Don't Let Them Wallow

It's easy for a teen to feel like a failure when they don't get into their dream college. However, it isn't the end of the world. Allow them to be sad for a day, but remind them that they still have several schools to hear from.

If your child receives only rejection letters, then start thinking of a positive Plan B. Have them attend community college for a year to improve their grades, or have them work for a semester while applying for January admittance. Be sensitive though, as they may not want to think about college for a little while.


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